Asking A Guy To Buy Me A Chanel Bag went viral on TikTok this week with over 2 million views! Of course ladies are wondering if this stunt was staged, similar to the Cheesecake Factory Date Night fiasco back in October. Here’s the latest in inspiring TikTok clips to encourage an abundance mindset for women.
The Audacity To Ask For What You Want
Did she know him? Was it staged? The reality is that things like this have and can happen all the time. In the bible, James 4:2 says – You have not because you ask not. Always remember this scripture because many people get what they want in life because they simply have the audacity to ask. Men do it all the time.
They walk into banks and ask for hundreds of thousands of dollars for property and businesses. They ask women for taboo sexual favors without shame! Some even pout and throw tantrums when they don’t get the cookie.
Why put up with that if you’re not getting what you need? The bank is asking a % of interest. They gladly pay it.
Why Give Your Heart When She’d Rather Have A Purse?
It’s no secret now that men are largely incapable of giving the same level of love and compassion that women give. They are not wired the same way as a compassionate woman.
So, if you can’t have his heart, better to have a Chanel bag instead because certain purses have increasing resell value. You can also rent your purse out and make money from them longterm.
Abundance Mindset When Dating
The woman in “Asking A Guy To Buy Me A Chanel Bag” is likely a complete hoax to get views and attention, but still provides a powerful lesson to always ask for what you want.
Having an abundance mindset when dating is very important because the moment you try to hide your desires you will be on the losing end. Don’t settle from the start and you won’t be mistaken for someone who will ALWAYS take less.
Enjoying The Kindness of Strangers
Her story is not far fetched at all. This happens to women, children, and homeless people all the time!
Strangers have even OFFERED to buy things while I’m shopping. I didn’t even have to ask! Most recently, my groceries were paid for by a complete stranger. He said, “I’ll take care of it!” and pulled out his card. I thanked him, smiled and walked out FAST before the transaction was even approved.
That was it! He didn’t ask for my number and he didn’t chase me down in the parking lot. This man told me he was 91 years old. I was clearly giving Anna Nicole vibes.
Another recent encounter where a stranger paid for my items was at a jewelry store. I noticed he was watching me earlier and we had a brief conversation about how much I loved the pieces. He complimented how they looked on me.
Then, after I was given my total, I paused and told myself secretly “He’s going to by them for me.” Guess what? He did!
The man asked for my number and we exchanged some texts for a few days, but I never saw him again. His purchase price had been exhausted and I do not do free conversations.
You Can’t Get Blood From A Stone
Change who you’re dating if he tells you he can’t afford something you can certainly afford for yourself or if he refuses to gift it to you. I wish I had known this lesson before. A boyfriend of mine (28) refused to buy me a pair of boots I wanted for Christmas. He was outraged at the price and told me that he would NEVER spend $300 on a pair of boots for me.
This particular boyfriend had purchased jewelry, given me cash, and took me shopping when we first met. He used to take me wherever I wanted to go, but 6 years into the relationship, there was no ring and no more special treatment. Read this on why you should never try to regain a guy’s attention!
I purchased the boots for myself, but what I neglected to do was dump him. I should have made my exit when he refused to get me the gift I really wanted, but sadly the relationship went on for several more years and the treatment got worse and worse. It was abusive.
If they can’t afford it, make your exit. If they don’t want to spend on it, make your exit. You can’t get blood from a stone.
When It’s All Over, What Did You Get?
Once the relationship has run its course, you should be wealthier, wiser, have memories of wonderful experiences, and tried many new things.
Remember Asking A Guy To Buy Me A Chanel Bag ladies! NEVER be afraid to ask for what you want, never settle, and be quick to make your exit at the first sign of mistreatment. It only gets worse with complacency in the relationship.