If a man lost interest in you there are a few reasons why. We break down the reasons and why you should NEVER try to regain a man’s interest in you.
You will be left doubting yourself and wondering, ‘once a guy loses interest can you get it back’? Queens don’t do that!
Forget that damaging advice and learn why you should NEVER try to get a man’s attention back.
Why Men Lose Interest…
He’s Actually Married
If you met this joker online he may actually be married and realized he was in over his head. They ALL claim to be unhappy in their marriage when they get that itch. Don’t internalize it or take it personally.
Remember, the faithful men are the ones in hospital beds. If you were ghosted, maybe his wife found out about you. Forget about him and move on.
He Can’t Afford You
This is a big one! A man may have lost interest in you because he ran out of money and needs to recuperate. If you are dating a young man under the age of 50, then chances are he doesn’t have the funds to entertain you regularly.
If he can afford you, then he’s working on his business and either way has decided to prioritize earning more money to gain access to more women. It’s a vicious cycle.
He Has Too Many Options
If the man is particularly handsome and or wealthy he will have a plethora of dating options. Do not take it personally if he becomes slow to respond. He’s like a kid in a candy store that can’t make up his mind or get to the tootsie roll center of a tootsie pop.
Rest assured, ain’t no particular one that’s getting his water gun. Each woman will become ghosted eventually or he will lose interest in communicating or dating until he becomes elderly or ill. Whichever comes first.
You Treated Him Like The Prize
Marriage should never be the end of putting yourself first in the relationship. Always treat yourself as the prize no matter what his behavior is. If you’ve made the mistake of treating your husband like the prize then don’t worry. Distance yourself from all of his daily needs and look after your own.
You’ve already said he’s lost interest in you so there’s nothing more to gain there. Start a new business, take up a new hobby, or just make new friends.
He’s Having A Mid-Life Crisis
Is your middle aged spouse suddenly trying to dress and act younger, but he only winds up looking like Steve Harvey? He may be going through a midlife crisis. If you are the same age, he sees you as a reminder of his low self esteem. It’s not your fault he looking like the change of life!
Pay this no mind as you have a wealth of wisdom, friends and family that love you. Spend more time with them.
Once A Guy Loses Interest Can You Get It Back
After understanding the reasons why he lost interest, why would you want to get him back?
The only way to get a guy back is by lowering yourself and exhibiting Pickmesha or pickme behavior.
This post explains why you should NEVER try to win a man over. Read the reasons he lost interest before embarrassing yourself.
Don’t lose weight for him, don’t change your hair for him, don’t try talking to him because he doesn’t care about your feelings. If he did, he would be all about you. Instead, do all of these things for YOU not him!
What To Do When A Man Loses Interest In You
First and foremost you should be dating several men until one of them takes the relationship to the next level. If you’re not married, you’re single. If you have several suiters, you are less likely to even notice one that has “lost interest”. You may even find relief.
Don’t spend any time trying to hoover them back into communicating with you, but also don’t block them. They may return and have a peace offering of some jewelry or money in the future. No hard feelings, just take it!
They love The Chase
They all show interest in the beginning because they love the chase. Once a man loses interest, you should do absolutely nothing except get a new one. Focus on things that make you feel great instead. You are magnificent!
If you are married, you can make new “friends” who enjoy your company. This friend may become your new husband one day.
Men can be fickle so don’t play games by reinventing yourself to pursue him. Loving who you are is the best thing to do. You will attract the attention of someone who is dying to get to know you. Have fun!